Say Yes in Your Homeschool

 Posted by on February 17, 2014  Add comments
Feb 172014
 

If ever there was something I could go back and tell my younger self about homeschooling, it would be to say yes moreSaying yes is a habit we’ve talked about before here at Habits for a Happy Home.

Say YES in Your #Homeschool www.habitsforahappyhome.comI can’t tell you how much I long for you to enter this wide-open, spacious life… Your lives aren’t small, but you’re living them in a small way. I’m speaking as plainly as I can and with great affection. Open up your lives. Live openly and expansively! II Corinthians 6:11-13 MSG

I’ve grown into the yes gradually. And this is, of course, a habit that extends beyond homeschool. So I want to encourage you to say yes, my dear, while the children are near:

  • Yes, you can stay up just a little later so we can finish reading this book.
  • Yes, you can play in the mud (she says as she puts towels down from the back door all the way to the bathtub).
  • Yes, pull out…every…last…foam…craft…heart and have at it!
  • Yes, paint every day!
  • Yes, let’s go visit great-grandmother today.
  • Yes, a pancake breakfast is just what we need to start the morning right. Even if it is already a little late.
  • Yes, let’s make a tin foil boat and watch it float down the street.
  • Yes, please make fudge! (and I will try my best to smile and not to sigh at the pile of mess in the sink)
  • Yes, I will stay up late and chat with you about all sorts of things.
  • Yes, I will ignore that overflowing pile of laundry and play Blokus.
  • Yes, why not? Let’s go to the park!
  • Yes, we can put down this and learn all about the brain today.

I’m not saying that I would have said yes and set aside all the regular learning all the time. But I would have said yes more. Because time is a vapor. See, I blinked and now my eldest will graduate in just two years. That baby of mine, my youngest, is soon to be a first grader.

Boundaries and rules definitely have a place. But so do freedoms and fun. And saying yes.

The love of the Father is like a sudden rain shower that will pour forth when you least expect it, catching you up in to wonder and praise. ~ Richard J. Foster

I’d also grab at some subtle yeses. A big hug. A pat on the back. A squeeze and an ‘I love you.’

God has called us into the joyous ministry of giving His love away to others. ~ Don Lessin

Yes, I will wear that crown of clover you made around the town! (and I hope to see you wearing yours too.)

The habit of saying yes.

Bottom line, wasn’t life itself a special occasion? ~ Jan Karon

Adviceformyyoungerself

I invite you to join all the ladies of iHomeschool Network offering up advice to their younger selves.

What can you be saying yes to more often?

  6 Responses to “Say Yes in Your Homeschool”

  1. I’m glad I read this before my kids got up today, Tricia… I’m going to be intentional about saying “YES” to some things today. This was a beautiful post.

  2. Oops! That verse is from II Corinthians! :-)

  3. love this! I am slowly becoming more of a ‘yes, mama.’
    Amy M recently posted..Advice to Myself as a New Homeschooling MomMy Profile

  4. This was very eloquent and timely. Of course I has to tell my kids “no, I will not be interrupted just now…” four times while trying to read it. But now I’m done and off to say YES more!
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  5. just lovely! i’ve been thinking along the same lines ; )

    http://onedeepdrawer.wordpress.com/2014/04/26/the-season-of-yes/
    kortney recently posted..homeschool helps: the basketMy Profile

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